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The Secret Law Of Attraction Revealed – What The Movie Doesn’t Tell You

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The Secret To “The Secret”

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The movie that opened so many eyes to the secret law of attraction:

a picture of the secret movie dvdI am guessing that if you are reading this that you have seen The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. It came out back in 2006 and opened the world up to the law of attraction and made it a household term. If you have not seen the movie, I would highly recommend that you not only watch it but buy it, so that you can watch it more than once and then share it with others just like I have with friends and family.

If you would like to find a copy at a good price, Just click the picture to the right to see where it is available. It will be one of the best investments you will ever make if you are starting to learn the law and what it is.

Your Experience Is Probably A Lot Like Mine Was:

If you are like I was way back in 2006 then you have already seen the movie and gotten excited. Where I got a little hung up and I noticed a lot of my personal friends got hung up as well, was that what they taught in the movie didn’t always work. It felt right and seemed like it should, but I just got the sense that something was missing. I am guessing that you have tried to use the law of attraction as they taught and it has worked for you in some form or another but probably on a small scale which is why you are here.

A_small_cup_of_coffeeExample: you may have intended to get a free cup of coffee and you randomly got one that was completely unexpected.

I would notice that this type of experience would happen to a lot of people quite frequently which kept people’s interest in the law of attraction and didn’t make it seem or feel like a scam. Clearly the movie wouldn’t have been as successful as it was if it was a scam. Oprah doesn’t bring just anybody on her show and she professes that she uses the law all the time in life. So what made it work sometimes and not others?

What The Secret Doesn’t Tell You:

To be fair, there is only so much a movie like this can pack in before it gets to be too long and you start to lose focus and attention.  They teach a great basis if you have a free and clear mind with no limitations or restrictions, but that just isn’t the case for most of us including myself.

One of the main factors that will prevent you from being successful in using the law of attraction that they do not talk about is paradigms. Paradigms are in my opinion the single most important factor to your success or lack there of in not just the secret law of attraction, but life in general.

So What Are Paradigms?

A paradigm is a subconscious belief that either promotes or prevents our success or failure in whatever we set out to do in life by altering our vibration to attract or repel the said belief. It is typically a deeply ingrained belief or pattern that has been embedded into the subconscious through heavy repetition or a traumatic event. These thoughts or beliefs tend to come from some of the following sources or programming:

  • Our parents
  • TV
  • School
  • Friends
  • Family
  • Music
  • Loved ones
  • Traumatic event
  • Affirmations

Let me give you an example of a limiting paradigm and a positive paradigm so you may grasp them better:

Limiting Paradigm: “Money is evil and having lots of money is bad” – Now we may laugh at this, but I have close personal friend who had this very belief locked away for 15 years and didn’t discover it until one day in one of his exercises he noticed a thought and brought it to our mastermind where we pinpointed what it was and where it came from. Keep in mind that consciously he wanted to make a lot of money but wasn’t having success. Money is merely an object and is neither good nor bad but simply what we make of it or “decide” what it is. If you are fighting in your mind right now what I just said, you have a paradigm of some kind that disagrees. It is up to you to look at it and decide if it serves you in life or not and moves you closer to your goal.

Positive Paradigm: “I am an intelligent successful person” – Sounds simple right? Somewhere in the life of this person they were lead to believe that they were intelligent and successful. Does that make it true? They could have easily been lead to believe differently, but because they hold this belief, I can assure you that they will exude intelligence and succeed more in life than someone without this belief. That funniest part about this is that ANYONE can create a paradigm and believe this if they so choose and they will in fact, find the reason from out of thin air to become more intelligent and successful attracting that into their lives. 

So How Do I Know If I Have Limiting Paradigms?

Great question, so let me ask you this, are you where you want to be in life? Are you enjoying a life that you love and are you pursuing your dreams? If your answer is no, then yes, you more than likely have limiting paradigms/ beliefs whether you know it or not, that are limiting your progression and success in what you desire. If you are not moving forward, then you are moving backward. There is no middle ground. You either attract what you want or you repel it.

How Do I Get Rid Of A Limiting Paradigm or Belief?

This really is the million dollar question and I would urge you to go through our free 30-day coaching course to walk through all of these steps again as they are well covered. That being said, if you have found a belief that you have that is keeping you from a goal you have set or a mission in life, we want to replace that belief with an empowering belief. You don’t “RID” a paradigm, but you do replace them. They can be nasty little things as well and will take time and effort to replace in a lot of cases because they typically have been repeated throughout your life hundreds if not thousands of times. Being aware of them is the first step and critical.

 

Let’s walk through replacing a paradigm so you can understand it better:

  1. Attractive young business woman thinking about money and smiling. Isolated on white backgroundLimiting paradigm = “I’m broke and have no money” – I like this example because I see so many people with this exact limiting belief. You’ll know it is a paradigm because it will be your instinctive reaction to a question like, “Hey, why don’t you replace your car with a newer model?”
  2. Once you have noticed the limiting belief, find its polar opposite that will move you towards your goal. So in this case, we will make our new paradigm “I am wealthy and money flows to me in avalanches of abundance!” or something similar as long as it starts with “I am”. This will be hard at first, which is why and where a lot of people give up. It sounds hokey but it works and has worked for thousands of years so stay with me here.
  3. Now that you have your new belief it is time to start grinding it in your subconscious (this is how you got your limiting belief to start with). When you wake up, get out of bed, look in the mirror and repeat your new belief out loud while looking at yourself and do this 5-10 times.
  4. Write your new belief on a card and carry it in your pocket so every time you reach in your pocket you feel it and are forced to think about it. Pull the card out when this happens and read it.
  5. Every night, write your new belief down on a notepad 10 times before you go to sleep.
  6. Do these steps for 90 days in a row. If you miss a day, start over.

That Sounds Like A Lot Of Work Matt!

How bad do you want your goal? I assure you that you put more effort into things in your life that gives you much worse results and do not benefit you or your dreams. I can say this because I am guilty of it as well. TV and video games are the top time eaters in most people’s lives. This is why people fall off and say the law of attraction doesn’t work. It has nothing to do with the fact that it works or not, it is because they are lazy or don’t have a big enough goal to move them to make a change. Giving up things that are comfortable is extremely tough, but you can not continue to lead the same life you are leading and expect a different result. To achieve more, you will have to change what you do and how you think. This includes giving at little of the time you spend doing things that are comfortable. In the grand scheme of life, these are very small and subtle changes but extremely powerful!

Now if you can’t seem to find the motivation to do what we have mentioned above then maybe you need to take a look at your goal and find something that will move you to strive for more. Make sure that your goal is big enough to scare you but still be the slightest bit believable. If you can already see how to achieve the goal you have then honestly it is not big enough. If you look hard enough and long enough, you will find something big that will move you. If not, write me and I can help you find a bigger goal.

“Now that your eyes are open, your excuses are gone!”

-Matt-

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8 Tips To Attract Wealth With The Law Of Attraction

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Bringing prosperity, riches and happiness into your life is not difficult when you are doing it one-step at a time. In fact, the easiest way to see results is to begin with one thing. Here are 8 easy strategies that will help you establish and to attract prosperity, greater riches and happiness in your lifetime. Are you ready to get started? Remember, using the law of attraction to attract wealth into your life is not a quick fix solutions. Furthermore, the key to success in any practice is patience and consistency. If you are not persistent and working daily to achieve your goals you will have little success. Although, those who are persistent and won’t accept failure as an option will eventually succeed.

1. Write down your long-term goal.

Bob Proctor and other personal development teachers say that one of the most important things you can do is physically write down your goal on a piece of paper, and refer to it daily. You can put it on a sticky note on the mirror in the bathroom or keep it in your wallet. Whatever you do, make sure you refer to it every single day. By doing this you will put out into the universe your desire for your goals attainment, and over time the universe will deliver.

2. Use Affirmations

Write down the phrase riches, success, pleasure, delight, laugh, cash or any words that resonate with you as you. These words should be positive and true to you. Before you go to bed, ready these phrases out loud and to yourself for a least 5 minutes. Add extra emotion and energy into the phrases to execrate your learning curve. Over time, your subconscious mind will move into action and begin searching for the best way to attain your goals. Do not expect to see instant results from affirmations, but instead watch the gradual improvement over time. Eventually, these ideas will become second nature and change will happen effortlessly in your life.

3. Never Stop Being Grateful

Success comes to those who are grateful and appreciative of what they have. As the universe begins to open up to you, make sure you keep an open grateful heart.
Heavily focus on what you’re thankful for every day. Value matters which you have to want more. Give thanks and gratitude to people who have faith in you, your buddies who consistently support you and your body that’s working for you personally. Surround yourself with people who support your vision and your dreams. It may sound harsh, but you need to avoid people who put down your dreams and hamper your creativity. The truth of the matter is most people are stuck in negative paradigms and cannot envision a world where they are successful. In fact, Bob Proctor says to avoid places or people that have negative energy altogether. The reason being is because whether you like it or not, this negative vibration will rub off on you and affect you negatively. Keep a constant attitude of gratitude and the world will open up for you.

4. Affirm the Positive Feeling and Reject the Negative

In order to live in a constant state of positive vibration you must give permission to the positive feelings and disregard the negative ones. Thinking impact the sub-conscious mind the most when feeling and emotion is felt along with it. Negative feelings should be explored and understand, but never given permission to effect your state. In fact, your mental state is completely under your control if you choose for it to be. This means that you can no longer make excuses about how the outward world effects you, and instead choose to be positive and choose to be happy. The world is filled with so much joy and amazement and it’s up to you to look at the glass half full instead of half empty. This positive feeling will go out into the environment and attract like-minded things and individuals to you. By remaining in a negative state you will attract like minded negative people and situations into your life. Remember, you thinking controls you destiny, so think carefully.

5. Engage in Positive Actions

Participate in actions that will calm and soothe your body, mind, and spirit. Remember, in your very nature you are wild, and will feel the best when your away from the city and in nature. Get off your computer and instead go for a walk in the woods. Nature has the perfect vibration and you should spend is much time in those positive vibrational fields as possible. When you are participating in outdoor activity, don’t all your head to be caught up in dates, to-do lists, and work issues. Instead, explore “big picture” topics or picture what your life is going to be like once your achieve your dreams and goals. It’s also important for a certain amount of time to be present in the moment. One trick to bringing your mind back to the present moment is to focus on your deep breathing. The reason this works is if your focusing on your breathing your not thinking of anything else. Engage yourself in activities that feel good in your soul. Studies show that engaging in these activities can trigger your primitive instincts to come to the surface, and make you feel alive.

6. Work Up a Good Sweat

Sweating is a great way to release endorphins and improve your mood. I prefer to engage in physical activities that I actually enjoy, therefore I’m working out and having a good time. Of course things like runnings, kettle bell, biking, hiking, backpacking, or anything like that will definitely help your mood. You can also use things like a long hot shower, saunas, hot tubs, and steam rooms to get a good sweat going. Whatever you prefer to do, it’s important to work the physical body as well as the spiritual body. When you combine these two at the same time, you can really help improve your soul and body.

7. Rejoice in Success of Others

One of the most positive things you can do in your life is to be happy for the success of others. All the great leaders say that great progress happens when you move from the competitive plane to the creative plane. If you are not rejoicing in the success of others it’s impossible to move into the creative plane. In fact, you should have such am mindset where you love when people around you are successful. The old saying goes “a rising tide raises all ships” and this saying applies to success in business and life. Be happy for the success of others and that will bring more success to you. You should shoot for being in a positive state of mind as often as possible. You should be so confident in the work you are doing that you are happy when other people around you achieve victories. In return, they will be happy for you when you achieve your dreams, goals, and aspirations.
8. Don’t Forget to Keep Learning

No matter how smart you think you are, there’s always more to learn about happiness, success, and spirituality. There are thousands of self-improvement teachers out there, each with their own unique point of view. When learning something new it’s important to take what resonates with you, while ignoring what doesn’t seem correct in your gut. You don’t have to agree 100% with any one teacher in order learn something from them. Instead, just take that 1 or 2 gold nuggets that serve you, and ignore the rest.

Maybe consider Some of my favorites like Tony Robbins or Steven Covey

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10 Secrets to success in 2016

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10 Secrets To Success In 2016

Our brains have the ability to process very large amounts of information on a daily basis. The subconscious mind is constantly processing and analyzing the millions of pieces of data our brain takes in on a daily basis. Many believe that the subconscious brain is completely out of our control and any attempt to influence it is a waste of time. I’m here to tell you that you can take control of the subconscious mind and train it in a way that serves your life goals. That’s where the Law of Attraction comes in. This universal law has been used for centuries by the great political and business leaders of our time. Through the process of controlling our thought patterns, over time, one can begin to forge their own destiny.

Many people attempt to master the subconscious mind but quit after they don’t see immediate results. The fact of the matter is that all change happens quickly, and repetition and time are the only way to influence the brain.
The law of attraction isn’t magical term hat suddenly will allow the universe to begin dumping money on your lap. In order to succeed, you have to actively feed the brain with the correct information. All of us have narratives, limiting beliefs, values, and other paradigms which control the inner landscape of our mind. The process of discovering these layers and apply this universal law takes time, but the results are magnificent.

1. Work on Deep Breathing and Mediation

In order to change your mind, you must begin to recognize your thought patterns. Utilize the meditative process to go inside. By focusing on your deep breathing you begin to realize things about yourself that you otherwise would never know.

2. Become Aware of Your Thought Patterns

For most people, your brain is constantly thinking about things related or unrelated to your current situation. Begin to notice what you concentrate on and what your attention goes too. If you are looking to achieve big lofty goals in life, it’s important to focus on these goals on a daily basis. If your brain is cluttered with other things that do not serve your purpose in life, then simply take note of these thoughts and explore them at a deeper level.

3. Monitor Stress and Anxiety Levels

Bob Proctor teaches us that stress, fear, and anxiety are all negative states. These states are usually due to external factors but create a vibrational frequency internally that controls everything in our life. Most people’s daily lives are filled with stress and anxiety which can damage your ability to use the law of attraction. The creative plane is where the magic happens which is the exact opposite of fear.

4. Remove Negative Influencers From Your Life

Negative people emit a vibration that will affect you while you are in their presence. Their energy permeates out into the cosmos and will affect anyone in their general area. It is my strong belief that you should avoid negative people at all costs. My goal is to constantly stay in a positive vibrational state and this is best done by surrounding yourself with others who are in similar states.

5. Use Yoga To Quiet The Mind

Through the practice of Yoga you can develop stronger willpower, calm the mind, and increase flexibility. Yoga is a powerful tool because it forces you to calm the mind and go inside. The world is full of stimulation and rarely do we get a chance to focus on our breathing. By practicing Yoga it forces you to slow down and will help you grow as a person.

6. Avoid Negative and Limiting Speech

Before I discovered the secret law of used a lot of negative speech in my daily life. Any speech which contains limited beliefs is only going to hurt your chances of growth. The subconscious mind is constantly learning from the way we think, talk, and interact with the world. If you are not feeding it good info, then it will not produce the results you desire. Likewise, if you move forward on a daily basis with complete confidence you can over time develop more confidence.

7. Take Notice of Strong Negative Feelings Internally

Negative feelings and emotions are so powerful that they can actually damage our body on the cellular level. The tension and discomfort associated with negative thoughts permeates every inch of our body. Instead, try to keep your body at ease all the time, even during stressful situations. Utilizing deep breathing, yoga, and other techniques described in this article you can begin to maintain a sense of ease, even during the most stressful situations.

8. Track Your Progress By Keeping a Journal

Maintaining a journal is a powerful way to keep track of the changes you experience during this process. In most cases, the change is so slow that if on doesn’t document it, you will never realize how much improvement you have actually made. In my case, I have a hard time remembering what life was like before I become more successful and stress free. The act of documenting this process in a journal can be therapeutic and help track your progress along the way.

9. Maintain a Constant State of Gratitude and Thanks

If fear, worry, and doubt are the enemy, then gratitude and thanks are your friends. The feeling of gratitude will put you in a positive vibration that will permeate every fiber in your being. The creative process is one that is amplified by gratitude and thanks and destroyed by competition and fear. These negative emotional states close the brain down to the creative energy and information available to everyone in the universe. On the other hand, when your in a positive state the creative power in the universe is free to flow into your.

10. Act as if You’ve Already Reached Your Goals

Self-help gurus have different names for this, but the basic concept is one of going to the movies in your mind. By envisioning your life as if you have already succeeded, you are forcing the subconscious mind to create a road map to reach your goals. This part of your brain is thousands of times smarter than the conscious portion, therefore, utilizing it can help accelerate your success. One of my favorite tactics is to picture my life with the wealth I know I will have in the future. I wake up in my beautiful house, take a swim in my pool, my chef cooks me breakfast, then I’m off to work. This process motivates me to work even harder to reach my goals.

Bonus: Add Emotion and Feeling Into the Process

Your mind is moved the most by those thoughts and actions that have the most feeling. Simply doing affirmations is not enough, those affirmations must be filled with strong emotion to really move the needle. That’s why when I do affirmations I will occasionally yell them out loud, or get a little angry while I say them. This is to let my mind know that I’m serious about attaining these goals and it’s time to put it in high gear. I’m sure we have all been in a situation in life where your back is against the wall and you must react immediately and boldly to make it. These types of situations are my favorite because I know when the pressure is on, I will be at my best.

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